REINVENT YOUR LIFE FOR BETTER CAUSE- MOTIVATION FOR YOUTHS

some decisions of major decisions and also there are a lot of small decisions that we don't make that they tax our minds they drain our energy they create a lot of anxiety and nervousness and mental torment because we don't take care of it we decide not to decide which is a decision deciding to decide to act is a major major challenge for all of us at different points in different areas of our lives and there are things that happen to us along the way experiences that we have that prevent us from working through the mental block of acting of doing those things that we know we ought to do and

so what i want you to think about is what is there that you know you need to do that you want to do this but for some reason or another you've been holding back for some reason or another you just have not been able to gather your nerves or be able to work through the procrastinating or putting it off or justifying or blaming some reason or another you just haven't done it and you know you ought to do this you really want to do this but you don't know why you haven't done it now first of all we know that this is not easy because in order to begin to reinvent your life you've got to make a conscious deliberate determined effort that you really got to put all of yourself into it

it's very challenging to act to do those things that times when you're looking at it you say i i know i need to do this but i don't feel like it so what do we do what are those things that that cause us to do like that i think that among the things that prevent us from acting is the fear of failure and if you've already failed you don't want to fail again the pain of that the disappointment the fear of loss is another thing because many times when we do those things that we know we need to do we feel that we might lose somebody that we love very much and care about we don't want to hurt anybody many of us don't act because we want other people's approval we want everybody to like us and to accept us and that's not possible many of us don't do the things that we want to do and don't act because of lack of self-confidence we don't believe enough in ourselves see many things we don't do is because the fact we want people to like us there's some necessary losses in life when you decide acting in your best interest you're going to lose some friends everybody's not going to approve of you and

 so what i'm saying to you is that as you begin to look out on your life this is challenging this is not easy acting so what are the things that we can begin to do to harness our will number one you've got to bring it out and look at it you got to take the power out of it you've got to expose it to the truth and the truth is that it has no power over you so write down something you want to act on but for some reason that you've been holding back and look at it the next thing is ask yourself what's blocking you what's preventing you from acting why don't you have the courage to handle that why won't you face that what are you running away from what kind of avoidance behavior are you engaged in next is what is the worst thing that can happen when you take action so what is the worst thing that can happen i want you to visualize that experience that feel the nervousness and the discomfort and the more you run it in your mind the less power that it will have next is how will you feel after taking this action i felt a sense of personal achievement when we look out on our lives you ask the question what are you going to do look at as you think about this that you know you need to handle what are you going to do.